We just moved and I was thinking I'd have to get a job to make ends meet, but I realize how much it would complicate our lives and stress us all out, not to mention how much it would cost to put the three-year-old in daycare, and the six-year-old in after school care, and having to pay higher taxes, and gas, and all the other expenses of working. It just wouldn't be worth it, so that I could be exhausted and stressed all the time, and what would we do if a child was sick... It would take too much away from the family right now, and the family is most important. So for my part, I make it work on the income we have, by not shopping or paying for things we don't need (excess/trendy clothing, revolving home decor and furnishings, eating out, cable/direct tv, cell phones, etc.)
I did have to work while my husband was in vet school (he couldn't work and do well in school - and we had to live on something), and I had a baby during that time. I had specifically found a job (well before getting pregnant) in a hospital, where I could work on Saturday and Sunday, and then just two to three days during the week. My shift was 5:30am to 2pm, so my hubby took the baby to the home sitter (I asked a friend at church if she would do it, and she was delighted) around 7:30am, then I picked him up at 2 (so he averaged about 18 hours a week with the sitter). It worked out well, and hubby was able to care for baby on the weekend. But with an active family, you probably wouldn't want to be away from your kids/hubby all the time. Latch key kids aren't happy and look for fulfillment in the wrong places. When ever I do get back in the work force, I would want it to be something professional (I do have a bachelors degree) so that it is worth my time, and something that I would enjoy. My job at the hospital was quasi professional, but I did not enjoy it (was a diet tech). I might start working on a master's degree when the time comes, in social work or counseling or something, that I could do part time, and would enjoy. Or I'm always thinking I should get a nursing degree because there is so much demand... but then I kick myself for not just having done that in the first place. I've known of people who worked one shift a week, including one weekend a month, which is really reasonable, and paid well. Anyway, good luck on your quest. I've also known of people who got nursing degrees in their 40s, and pulled themselves out of poverty.