B.A.
I would continue whatever I was doing with my family before. Why would you change one side for what the otherside has done...doesn't make sense. I would also send Christmas cards to all. I would remember that the holiday season is about appreciation, greatfullness, love, peace and joy. Not about who has done what. Life is short to hold grudges and scorn those you love. Family is family but in this same light you aren't required to buy presents for anyone...just love them and forgive them.