A.,
I actually just had it done in July. I am MUCH happier. I would recommend it to anyone as long as they feel the need it, not just for cosmetic reasons. I have two kids and was always large breasted, but they grew even more with each child. I went through physical therapy and everything on and off for almost half my life (so far) and nothinig seemed to work. I finally talked to a doctor after another round of therapy which consisted of medication that just made me extremely loopy and I couldnt take it anymore. I HATE blood, needles, everything that surgery consists of, but once I talked to the surgeon, I went through with it. Just make sure that you are no longer going to have any further children. You cant breastfeed anymore (I couldnt anyway) and my sister had the surgery before she had children and it can reverse itself if you have child (which it did to her). I am definately done so that wasnt an issue for me. And I do have to say that the thing that scared me the most was going under and the pain. There was minimal pain and like I said before, I hate pain. I am a wimp and I know it. IF you can handle giving birth to a child and raising them, this is a piece of cake. The only real issues I had are the itching (it is insane but benadryl works well and I couldnt sleep on my side for 4 weeks and I couldnt lift my children (luckily they arent babies and they were old enough to understand I couldnt lift them. Also, if your back problems are like mine, my pain went away almost instantly but I still get back aches (not all the time and not nearly as bad) so dont expect them to go away instantly. I had been warned so I wasnt looking for a miracle but I have not been back to physical therapy since.
But first go talk to a good surgeon (I went to two before I picked one) and I talked with my insurance company to see if they would cover it (they did which I wouldnt have been able to afford it if they did, but they considered mine medical not cosmetic), talk with your husband and if you decide to do, I wish you all the luck and happiness that I now have.