Dear Robyn,
I would like to introduce myself. Please do not get discouraged when I tell you I am also a board certified lactation consultant. I have been practicing for over 15 years and I personally had alot of problems with my first child. She did not breastfeed until she was 3 weeks old and it was in a Subway restaurant. Needless to say at the effort I had put into this "wonderful experience". She started fussing and crying and I had no bottle. I thought what is the worse thing that could happen. I almost jumped up and announced SHE IS BREASTFEEDING!!!! I changed my mind though, figuring maybe that would be a little uncomfortable for the patrons.
I have to admit at the time I had taught women to breastfeed for almost 2 years before I had my first child. How hard could it be? Lets just say thats when my opinion changed in regards to breastfeeding.
I would like to mention breastfeeding does not have to mean exclusive breastfeeding. I have had adoptive mothers who had been able to lactate with just pumping. It took a few months of pumping 6-8 times a day. There is even medication and herbs that can be taken to increase your supply. The most important phase of developing a good milk supply is the first 3 weeks.
Though I would like to recommend the pump in style but these are for single usage only. The worst case scenario is developing a case of herpes, Tb, aids,ect. Boiling will not kill some forms of infections. I know it is unlikely to happen but I would rather aid on the side of caution.
I would be happy to converse with you over the phone or the net. I have worked with The WIC Program for over 14 years and even some of my coworkers were not happy with me taking 3 (15 minute) pumping brakes a day. I had a problem with the letdown and even with low milk supply. I was able to only pump 1 oz. total and I was unable to exclusively breastfeed. However, neither child weaned on their own. I had decided enough was enough. They were both 2 years old. So, I guess my children adjusted to my supply with occasional pumping (from 6-9 months. After that I no longer pumped). I was very lucky to be able to take my children to work with me UNTIL THEY WERE 6 MONTHS OLD. Lucky Me, yes I agree. The other side of that coIN is NEVER ANY ME TIME.
I have a sink full of dishes and children to get to bed. However, my work cell phone (which is paid by WIC) as a breastfeeding hotline. ###-###-#### or email me some more information along with due date. I will be happy to talk with you but sometimes it helps to write down your questions as you think of them before we talk again.
H. Bushy
IBCLC
p.s. I UNDERSTAND THE REASONING THAT SOME PEOPLE HAVE ABOUT NOT PUMPING WITH IN THE FIRST MONTH AFTER DELIVERY. THE THOUGHT PROCESS IS M. WILL GIVE UP TRYING TO LATCH THE BABY ONTO THE BREAST. SOMETIMES PUMPING TAKES OVER SOME MOTHERS AND THEY FIND IT EASIER INITIALLY. bUT AFTER A FEW WEEKS OR A COUPLE OF MONTHS. OFTEN MOTHERS WILL WEAN DUE TO THE HASSLE OF PUMPING. PUMPING HAS A TIME AND PLACE. THIS CAN ALSO INCLUDE THE FIRST FEW DAYS OR WEEKS OF YOUR CHILD'S LIFE. MY JOB IS TO GET THE BABY FED, MY NEXT JOB IS TO HELP YOU ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL WITH BREASTFEEDING. IT MAY BE VERY TIME CONSUMING AND EXHASTING THE FIRST 3 WEEKS. IF YOU CAN MAKE IT TO WEEK 4, YOU SHOULD HAVE NO MORE CONCERNS WITH BREASTFEEDING AND OR EVEN SUPPLEMENTING IF THE NEED ARISES.