I am a licensed medical professional and a Botox injector. I am in the field of plastic surgery. I attend advance trainings and conferences at least 3-4x per year. I love what I do and I know that I do it well. My patients come to me b/c they are tired of looking tired, worn out, or angry (they aren't any of the above!). With proper technique and amount of Botox, I can help them achieve a softer face that looks rested and happy. In fact, my patients love that they never look "done" and are thrilled with their results. There is something wonderful about being part of a subtle transformation in my patients that can significantly improve their self esteem ( we all like to look and feel better, whether it's from new hair, clothes or makeup). I don't change who they are or make them look frozen or fake. It's really how Botox is "done", (by the medical professional) that makes one look so good or bad.
I agree that it is important to know what Botox (or any other neurotoxin) is, who is injecting it, and how much they will be injecting. There are risks and side effects (headache, slight discomfort- it should never hurt, bruising, slight swelling, redness, and lid or brow ptosis (lid/brow drop)). It IS FDA approved for treatment of wrinkles in the frown area of the forehead. Other areas are considered "off label", but still deemed safe and appropriate. I tell every single one of my patients about the good, bad and ugly with neurotoxins. I answer all of their questions, truthfully, at a complimentary consult (always pressure free and I give them all the time in the world to digest the information and schedule a treatment appointment if and when they are ready). I believe in honesty and informed consent. All of my patients are beautiful people, and I tell them that, every time. But I can open up the brows to look more awake and happy and also help reduce headaches, alleviate jaw tension, and maybe even prevent the surgical fix of a face lift. I LOVE what I do and my patients LOVE how they look...and they keep coming back. I don't sell them the farm, it's just about listening to my patients, discussing realistic expectations and achieving wonderful outcomes.
I respect a person's right to say "not for me", but please don't judge others that are considering this or have done it. And please don't tell stories that aren't true or have no medical worth...be truly invested by learning the truth (good or bad) by reading respectable medical journals and studies.
Good luck RE! Thank you for reading my long response...and yes, at age 39, I do get Botox in my frown lines!