Forget the book and hire some help ;)) Sorry....if I knew of a good book I would recommend it but I don't. I just keep one spiral notebook with me at all times fr my personal stuff and make lists of things to do so I don't forget anything. I categorize them as follows: groceries to buy, other things to buy, stuff to do around the house, financial/legal matters to take care of, and thank you notes/correspondence to write. It may take me a while to get to the tasks but at least I don't have to remember worrying what the tasks are. I also have a routine which I follow every week (gosh I sound rigid right now!): Sunday - gas, car wash if necessary, finish laundry, and pick up house completely, cook food for week
Monday - drop off dry cleaning and pick up dry cleaning, set out trash
Tuesday - bath night and bills/legal stuff
Wednesday - a little laundry, pick up house a little and do some correspondence
etc
Hope that helps, good luck
Good luck!!