My name is L., A year ago my husband and i were so excited we had 2 positve pregnancy test, here in texas for some reason they wont let you see a doctor till your 10 weeks along. we were so excited and then we got to the doctor and she said we had a blighted ovum. we saw the ulrasound and there was no baby at all in there that we could see. we were so upset. we waited till about september of this year to start trying again. And.. well 2 weeks ago we took a prego test and it was positve. and of course we have been worried sick what this one is gonna turn out like it did last time.. We get to see the dcotor on november 1st, but i am so so nervous and worried that this is gonna happen again. I'm trying to have faith and trust that god has us in his hands. We want another baby so so bad. I just hope everything goes the way it needs to for us to have a healthy baby.
Numbers 6:24-26
"The LORD bless you and keep you;the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace."
I know it's hard not to imagine that the same thing will happen to you again, but it's very possible to go on and have a successful pregnancy after a loss. I had a miscarriage before each of my two successful pregnancies so I know the worry of getting through those first few weeks! Take it easy and try not to worry (i know--easier said than done). Your doctor should have some sympathy, though, and see you a bit earlier this time! I was allowed early ultrasounds after my first miscarriage to help me feel a bit better that things were going well.
Good Luck and best wishes!!!!!!
I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through that and hope that you have success this time.
If it was me, I would call a fertility clinic. Explain your situation and see if they would be willing to see you. I would also hope that your OB/GYN would be willing to see you early too. If not, maybe you need to switch docs.
Hi L. - I've been there and it is really hard. I completely understand your worry because I felt it too. When I got pregnant again, I felt that fear and worry rise up but I almost had to beat it down - if that makes sense. I had to remind myself to trust my body and that if I wasnt having any symptoms of a miscarriage, then things were probably going to be okay. Of course, you know that once I saw his little heart beat all that fear just faded away.
I wish you all the best!!!
L., who is your OB? You should most definitely NOT have to wait to see one. I got in to see mine around 5 weeks. Best wishes to you.
