C.O.
J.:
First off - DO NOT PANIC!! When you panic - it raises blood pressure and can cause more bleeding. I know it's easier said than done - however, TAKE A DEEP BREATH - CALM DOWN!!!
The blood from the nose and mouth can be scary. If she's been laying down instead of being inclined, that would cause the vomiting - not only is she getting the anesthesia out of her system, her body is healing. Again DO NOT PANIC.
1. If she didn't follow the recovery directions - tried to eat the wrong thing(s) too soon or didn't take the antibiotic (I didn't have mine out until I was 32 years old), bleeding can occur. I realize that she is five years old - so you need to go over what you have fed her and what she has done since the surgery and let them know.
2. Contact the doctor who did the tonsilectomy - not just the ER - have him involved in this - it's possible a stitch came out - that's what happened to me - and I was bleeding and spitting up blood as well.
3. ICE POPS, CLEAR LIQUIDS, JELL-O - EASY THINGS TO EAT - SHE HAS TO GET SOMETHING IN HER STOMACH...NO CRACKERS!!! NOTHING that can "scratch" on its way down
4. Her stomach will be upset because she is swallowing blood...that upsets ANYONE'S STOMACH - again - CLEAR fluids, ICE POPS not ICE CREAM, consumme (broth) - let her "suck" on small chips of ice as well - that will help with the swelling.
5. Tylenol - with the Dr's permission - it will help with the pain as well and allow her to get some food in her belly - it's not an easy thing - but really - DO NOT PANIC...
I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers!