I have a daughter who is turning 13 in March & my stepdaughter who I have adopted is also turning 13 in June. These are ideas we have thrown around:
1. spa party with a few girl friends ...there is a Seventeen Spa up in Plano but it is really expensive.. I have seen other local spas that have packages for a lot less money...or you could do one at home!
2. limo to the mall for lunch & some shopping
3. karaoke party at a restaurant
4. We have also thought about having a sleepover at Great Wolfe Lodge in Grapevine.. it is new & a night at the hotel includes passes to their indoor waterpark. They have rooms that hold up to 8 I believe.
5. hotel slumber party (we did this last year at the Embassy Suites in Irving..they have a slumber party package which was about $150 but it includes a 2 room suite (sleeps 6), a pay per view movie, an hour of video game play, pizza & soft drinks, breakfast buffet (lots of food), managers reception which served popcorn, nachos & sodas in the evening, indoor swimming pool, hot tub & sauna) The girls had a blast. The only downside was that she could only invite a few girls..
Last year for my stepdaughter's bday, we bought 2 family passes to Bahama Beach waterpark in Dallas (so that got in 8 people) it included a lunch ticket for each of us.. The waterpark is fairly so parents can sit in a central location, sunbathe & still see the what the kids are doing for the most part. The kids had a great time & the family passes are reasonably priced.
6. We did Libby Lu when my daughter was turning 10, but even though my girls would still love it at 13, a lot of the girls were outgrowing some of the Libby Lu outfits at 10-11, so I don't know that they would fit 13 year olds at all. I haven't heard of those other 2 places mentioned, but I am going to check into them!!
7. One more! I see that you are in Seagoville. There is a drive in movie theater not too terribly far from you in Garrett, TX (Ennis) A lot of kids have never been to a drive in so it is a big thrill for them. I think my daughter has decided on a sleepover, going to the drive in that night, then going to the mall with friends the next day. They think they are old enough to walk around the mall by themselves but I will be right on their trail.. ha ha
Edited to add: I looked at the website for Girlfriends in Mesquite that someone had mentioned... that looks so neat!!