Hi J.
I live in Safety Harbor and wanted to say "hi". I am also a single mama, but I have three children, ages 9, 6 and 2 1/2 years. If you ever want to get together, let me know. My older two are in school, but I have mornings to have playdates, etc. I do some part time work and go to school, but I have time to meet up sometimes.
Regarding your party, is it possible to have it in your home? I wouldn't do Chuck E. Cheese if she is fearful. I don't have a lot of suggestions for indoors, I usually do parties at my home since the little ones feel comfortable at home. I sometimes do outside, but it can get hot in Florida and it can also rain. If you can't do it at your home, do you have any friends or relatives' homes to have it? I have done that before as well.
Good luck, if you want to get together, email me: ____@____.com
A.