Hi C.,
Since I have had periods I had the most HORRIBLE cramps. Even in High school I would have to take the whole day off because the pain was so unbearable I wouldn't be able to concentrate on school work.
Unfortunately the absolute "only" thing that helped was the BC pill. I have been taking LoEstrin 24 now for the past couple of years and never have cramps....unless I skip a month of pills.
I requested the lowest hormone of pills and that's what they prescribed me so you might want to give them a try. You sound like your cramps are as bad as mine so I think it will really help you out.
If you want to completely stay away from any type of BC pills, try motrin a couple of days before your cramps start. IB Profin is great for cramps and I heard fromn an OB GYN on Oprah that taking the medicine a couple of days before you start will get the medicine in your system and work better.
Heating pads almost always help me pretty quickly but not always the most convenient.
Good Luck and hope you find something that works for you.
I know those cramps are the worst!
~N.~