My daughter didn't care if she was wet in pull-ups or panties, so it took a long time for us, but I think I started too early before she was ready (right after she turned two). But what worked for us is that she loved falling asleep in my bed at night so she could watch a movie. So I told her one morning that if she didn't have any accidents, she could go into mommy's bed at night to fall asleep, but if she had any accidents at all she would have to go to sleep in her room. I wasn't sure if she would actually understand that, but it worked. She did real well for a couple weeks, and then had an accident (it's going to happen no matter how well she's doing) and I put her in her room and explained to her that she has another chance to try again tomorrow. She's doing great now (3 next week), and I still stick to this method (but I don't mind moving her once I head to bed...I get an extra snuggle in there). Good luck!