I like piercing pagoda. the one in deptford mall is great. I have seen them in action and they are very nice. they give ear care solution free with the earrings and have special earrings for kids when they get their ears pierced. tell you daughter if she plays with the earrings they will get infected and she will not be able to keep them in. wait a couple more weeks and see if she keeps asking. some kids do cry when they get their ear pierced because it stings. may be it may be a good idea to wait until she is five before you get them done. it is going be a lot of responsiblity on your part to make sure she does not play with her earrings and making sure they do not get infected. is this something that you are ready for right now?