You wont break in half. I promise you this.
In the compounded time of less then even 9 months I: 1. Hit a child with my car. 2. Had my insurance Company give me the big middle finger because they refuse to work with my mental health Doctors ,I had been seeing for over four months. 3. Was made to go cold turkey off of Three heavy duty medications all at the same time. 4.Developed a life threatening eating disorder. 5. Went into Organ failure and was told I had to wait to have surgery...Just to make sure it was truly an emergency(since I no medical insurance..and my Car insurance refused to see that the eating disorder and organ failure was brought on by the fact I was pulled out of treatment and off the Heavy duty meds they had me on cold turkey, was all apart of the accident at that point). 6. A month after my life saving surgery, I had my then 4 year old admitted to Childrens for a Month that was so covered in sores when he tried drinking water he would just start bleeding out of his mouth(it took 4 trips to the ER to get anyone to take me seriously..Which in and of itself was maddening)...and to shorten my list 7. We just finished filing for Bankruptcy on over $100k in Medical Debt, all from my treatment, surgery and other medically related issues from my accident.
I look back and think about that small list of 7 things...and in and around those things I was also dealing with the day to day of being a mom to three..One with special needs.
I did not have a relationship with God until last year. I mean a REAL REAL relationship....Where I talk to him constantly. Through the big stuff...and to share the joy of the fun stuff...As a thank you to him for his glory and gift of that great moment in time.
All of the things you have listed are pretty tough. And overwhelming at that.
Keep your faith in god going.
Know it is not a sin to doubt him. It is human nature..Especially since we dont have the crystal ball to see ahead even a day.
Above all...KEEP TALKING about what you are feeling. To your spouse would be the best....allowing him time to share as well. If not the spouse find a friend or family member that is dedicated to listening to you vent..worry and talk through things(telling them in advance they are that person you will go to is the best thing...So you prepare them to listen and not feel like all you do is complain about life)Even someone from here(which is where I found alot of my support and still do).
It is when you stop talking, you start holding in feelings...which then can put you to that tipping point.
KEEP TALKING:) We are always here for you.