A.S.
Do it!! It was my grandmothers dream, too, so they did it for their 50th and she had the kids & grandkids stand up as her attendants. They had a professional photographer and a reception after in the fellowship hall. It was 10 years ago and she still has all of the little momentos all over the house, photos, cards, cake topper, everything. She doesnt regret it one bit and I believe it is one of her most cherished memories.
It's never too late! I say:
Get yourself a beautiful dress, send out the invitations and go for the big wedding and forget the big reception! Have cake and punch at the church. This is YOUR day... not anyone elses! Dont forget to go to the spa and get a nice massage & your hair & makeup done. You'll only get married once! :)hehehe