D.,
This message is as much for you as for any other mother who reads this and is thinking of the convertable crib. I have 2 girls 10 mos apart, and had 2 cribs that were "convertable" from crib to toddler bed to full sized bed. Made sense when we got them, but it never occurred to us that the "toddler bed" would be so high, or that all the guard rails would be for longer beds. We had the same problem and finally broke down and bought toddler beds for them. The problem with the longer guard rails on the toddler beds was that after a few years of jumping around in the crib, there was no way to convince them that they couldn't still do it the the new "handy dandy lower rail" and there was no room for them to crawl around the thing to get on and off the bed. We decided on the "toddler bed" because we figured, "Hey, we already have all of these bottom sheets, just get flat sheets and we are all set to go." Our girls are TINY so the idea of a twin bed scared us. The first few times we heard our youngest hit the floor, we were happy she was only a few inches up...Anyway, they also don't tell you that it is next to impossible to find flat sheets to go with all those cute fitted sheets you have for your crib. A little easier to get heavier throw blankets to use, but for the sheets, you need to get "toddler sets" for $30-$50 a pop. I did finally find a site on-line www.ababy.com that has them, but if you have a larger child that will outgrow his or her crib mattress soon, don't waste you money. Go from a REGULAR crib to a REGULAR twin bed with a guard rail. Our girls still have a few years in these beds, though. We joke at our house that they will be going tohigh school in their booster seats...Do you think they let you use a booster seat for the drivers test?
Good luck with the furniture dilemma. I know it drove me nuts, and my husband wanted it resolved "immediately" which only made things harder.
S.