T.L.
Sorry you are having to go through this, it is scary. I was diagnosed about two weeks ago with a malignant melanoma (actual skin cancer) in my right upper arm. My suspicious spot had been there for a couple of years gradually getting bigger and me looking at it thinking I should get it checked and that it's ugly looking, but never realizing or not wanting to realize it could be skin cancer. I have all the risk factors as well, but I was able to get a good tan and in my 20's I loved the tan look so I used tanning beds, tanned outside...I have been sun conscience for years now, but all that tanning and I remember getting multiple sunburns as a child caught up with me! Anyway I actually went into the dermatologist for some brown spots on my face I wanted to get removed and a couple of moles and they asked if I wanted to do a full body check. I showed him the spot on my arm, which he clearly would have seen during the check, and he took one look at it and said I want to biopsy then another smaller spot under my left breast was also done. Waited a week a he called with the results of skin cancer in my right arm, luckily it was "in situ" meaning it had not spread anywhere else and it could just be removed. The other site was just some atypical cells, so no further treatment needed. So I have about a 2 inch scar on my right upper arm and I actually go get me stitches out this morning, yay! It was a major wake up call to pay better attention to myself and that I am in no way immune to cancers and such. Take care of yourself.