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ETA: If your husband works near S. Barrington why on earth would you look at Lagrange??? You need to consider Bartlett, Fox River maybe consider St Charles, beautiful areas.
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I love South Barrington. I would live there in a heart beat if we could live that far out. I've known many people that live in that area and none were snobs, even the ones that lived in million dollar homes. But does your husband work in the city? If yes, then his commute would be terrible.
Would you consider Lagrange? Or are you wanting more north? Maybe Elmhurst? How far west are you willing to go? Sugar Grove and North Aurora or Batavia are very nice areas too.