It's been over 10 years now since I considered bankruptcy, so I don't remember much of the details, and things have certainly changed since then. I only want to caution you about one thing... I, too, went to consult with an attorney who specialized in bankruptcy. Bottom line is they want your business. So they will tell you every reason you SHOULD declare bankruptcy, and downplay any of the multitude of reasons not to do it. They will make it look like the absolute best and simplest option for you. But be extremely cautious.
After I consulted with the bankruptcy attorney, and had all but signed the papers, I decided to consult with a bank, just for some additional perspective on how bankruptcy would impact me in the long run. And holy moly, did the attorney paint a rosy picture of a very gloomy prospect. After speaking to the banker, I decided unequivocally that I did not want to deal with the different set of problems that bankruptcy would cause me.
So, as a single person, paying for my own apartment, car, etc., with a basic middle class job, I paid off $27,000 of debt in 4 years. That's a hell of a lot less time than the 10 years (at least) that you'll deal with the ramifications of bankruptcy. And with no aftermath. Once it was paid, it was paid. And I was free. And let me tell you how I celebrated after I paid my last payment. It was overwhelming.
Many people have recommended reading Dave Ramsey's books or attending his seminars, as he is absolutley the go to guy these days for getting out of a mountain of debt (not by magic, but by hard work and sacrifice), but his method works. And he takes you beyond getting out of debt to gaining financial freedom by managing your money properly. He gives step by step instructions for how to do this. I recently got his book - Total Money Makeover, and I can't wait to read through it. Not for debt, but for gaining financial freedom.
Best wishes. I know it's a tough decision.