K.R.
I know it's hard, and honestly I don't have any magic answers for you. I'm also not trying to freak you out, but I noticed alot of responses about swaddling and I agree it is good and babies like it. But please be careful. Don't overheat you little one with too many blankets and don't let there be ANY ANY ANY possiblity of getting tangled or trapped. My two month old son died of SIDS and since I've done a great deal of research on the subject. Overheating with big heavy blankets can be a huge risk factor. Before you decide on anything please read up on the risk factors associated with SIDS and do what is best for your little angel. I'm really sorry if I cause any undue stress or worry, I'm only trying to help. Good Luck with whatever you decide.