This is very normal. You are right, she does know it's not you and wants you. It's something that you will have to try with her everyday until she gets it. IT is best if you are not the one giving her the bottle (as she can smellyou). Also different brands of bottles may work better for her. If she takes a pacifier maybe getting a nipple similar will help.
Also calling a lactation nurse would really help you with ideas and getting through this patch. If you call Palos Hospital you can ask to speak with a lactation nurse and they will either put you on the phone with one or have you leave a message and they are very good at getting back to you and also following up to make sure things are working out.
Don't stress out too much, enjoy your time with you daughter, you can't get this time back.
Good Luck.