First of all, its not necessary for dad to feed the baby to bond. That is the worst excuse for not breastfeeding in my opinion. My husband never fed our boys, and never had a problem bonding to them through holding them, talking to and playing with them, changing diapers, bath time, etc. Feeding is not the only way to bond with a baby. Dads have a different bond with children than mom does anyway, and again its not necessary to use feeding times to bond.
Take a breastfeeding class,and ensure that the hostpial you are delivering at as an IBCLC (Lactation Consultant). Surround yourself with other moms and people who will support your decision, and support you when you need it. Inform your husband that you will be breastfeeding nad you need his support and encouragement. Even your mom and mother in law, they need to be supportive. If anyone is a downer about it, then don't have them around until breastfeeding is goin well.
You can intro a bottle when your baby is nursing well, your supply is in, and baby is latching, and you two have a routine. Sometimes thats as early as 2wks, sometimes not until 6wks. Once you have breastfeeding down, baby has good latch, and you are both comfortable, then intro a bottle.
But mostly don't panic if she doesn't take it right away. its something new, and it will take practice for her too to learn how to drink from a bottle. My boys each liked different bottles... my oldest took the Avent, my youngest the Playtex with drop ins.
So it may be trial and error, but relax, get breastfeeding down first, surround yourself with support, seek help from a lactation consultant if you need it, and then intro a bottle when all is going well.
Congrats on your baby girl!