I don't know your area at all, by every area across the U.S has a Regional Center. Find the Regional Center closest to you which does free evaluations and therapy for families that qualify. It's a federally funded program and historically was very generous with their funding, although this economy has taken a nosedive. But check it out. They will also have referrals for schools, early intervention programs. If you qualify for services, which I did here in L.A, then they will help fund the early intervention program. Also, I know there are website and tons of organizations that support families with an Autistic child. Good Luck!