OMG...my daughter does the same thing, she is doing great schoolwise...she reads, and has the best handwriting in her class...its even better than my husband's, but when she gets frustrated or gets in trouble during lunch and has to get her card pulled to red (which is bad) she has a complete meltdown, crying for over 30 minutes and tries to hide behind the teacher's desk and then finally calms down...we have been to the school several time and asked them to test her (adhd or dyslexia)...so they are in the process of doing so, it takes 4 weeks or so...but the assistant principal says....there is nothing wrong with her she may just be a late bloomer??? We are so frustrated and I'm starting to believe its a behaviorial issue...let me know if find any other resolution with this facility...we need the help FYI she is in 1st grade and will turn 7, March 14.