My 8yr old has mild aspergers. He's very meticulous... everything has to be done by the book. Rules are rules and by golly you'd better follow them! He's also kind of socially inept, but he does ok once he's with people he knows or kids he gets to know. Its meeting new kids heh as a problem with, he's not very social but loves having friends to play with... kind of a catch 22 for him.
He's obsessed with things for a length of time and sponges up every drop of information having to do with his obsession. For a while it was trains, then he moved onto buses (school buses, city buses, transit buses, etc) adn now its ships. He can tell you how much fuel, the lenth, number of passengers, etc of numerous fleets of ships. Its crazy the info he can sponge up. Crazier the stuff he remembers and repeats back to us. He has a photographic memory.
He's extremely smart, been in gifted ed since Kindergarten, reading since he was 4, and he's really excells in math and science. He also enjoys social studies and history, and still reads many grades beyond his age. (last year he was reading at a 6th grade level and 5th grade comprehension, he will be in 3rd grade this year).
He makes funky noises, all the time. In the car he will just suddenly belt out some random loud noise. He also flaps his hands some, but its not noticeable as he only does that at home. He listens well and is now old enough to understand taht the noises are not appropriate in public. All it takes is a 'Zan, slow down' and he gets what that means. He also can't tell a story without making sure every minute detail is included. If he forgets something, the story must be started over until its totally correct to the last detail.
He does have some sensory issues...he gags when he eats something like yogurt, pudding, oatmeal, jello, etc.He doesn't like ot touch playdoh or play with the sensory table at school when in preschool (which has rice, beans, shaving cream,etc in it).
He has little imagination. He's getting better and can now actually play and have fun but boy for years he just couldn'ts tep outside his box of reality and play like a little kid. Everything had to be correct and sized right and placed right. Now he can play and enjoy some things that kids his age like, but he;s still not super imaginative, everything has to be by the book and correct or its just not fun for him.
Overall, he's just a quirky kid. He's funny and so very smart, and he's a joy to be around. People who meet him don't know there is anything 'wrong' with him as many of his quirks are common to a boy, but once the yget to know him its obvious his quirks are a bit more than the average boy.
If you feel your child may ahve aspergers, talk to his pediatrician, talk to the school psychologist, get some questions answered and research. And relax, aspergers kids are amazing! :)