Hi L.,
although I did not use an egg donor, I just underwent in vitro, about a year ago and I have a beautiful 4 month baby girl thanks to the treatment, I too had issues with my eggs, I was 34 at the time and the first time we tried to get my eggs, I only got 2 eggs!!! needless to say the first time failed, however I tried to remain positive (which is close to impossible after all the shots and procedures) but I don't know how religious you are, but the book "Supernatural Childbirth" really got my spirit where it needed to be and the second time around I got 14 eggs and as I already told you it was successful!!! so don't give up, it's so hard to go through but so rewarding in the end! my prayers are with you and remember that stress is a huge factor, so the more relaxed you can remain the better, massages are nice, but also remove yourself from stressful situations and people, don't even watch the news, it really helps!!
Good luck!!