J.A.
I've done the met/clomid combo and at 1000mg Met, 200mg Clomid (daily- clomid CDs 2-6) I got pg. I am now due with #2 in November. I have also done a pelvic u/s, but not the HSG.
As much as I do like MamaSource, I am not sure it is the best fit for someone who is PI (Primary Infertility) without kids. If you are Christian, the is another site for Christian Women in any stage of Infertility. It is called Hannah's Prayer. http://www.hannahsprayer.org/board/ has special forums for PCOS (the most comon reason they Rx Met), Anovulation (sp? but non-ovulating cycles), PI, SI (Secordary Infertility, like me), Prayer Requests, and many MANY others.
At my worst point of suffering Infertiliy, I couldn't stand to read the questions here about new-born babies. I couldn't take the "am I pg AGAIN?" questions. It just hurt too much! It is a painful situation to live through. And at HP (Hannah's Prayer) I learnt that it is natural to feel that way.
Research has shown that a woman's grief and stress as she deals with infertility is equal to a person suffering a life threatening disease such as Cancer. In fact, there was an article of a women that had been through IF, and years later had Breast Cancer. She stated that she would rather suffer Breast Cancer again over IF. "With cancer, you have an answer and a prognoisis to prepare your hopes around. With IF, either you have hope, or you've given it up." In another article I read (somewhere) they were explaining that often, the reason that husbands can't be more sympathetic to a wife with IF is because men can seperate their identity from IF. Women on the other hand start to define their identity AS IF. I think that bit helped me to feel less like my hubby and I were from 2 differnt planets.
Anyway, I hope some of this has been of help, and some has been of comfort. Good luck on your TTCing!