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Gotta love those kind of comments. I've worked with kids for years and have gotten similar comments plenty of times. Parents looking down on other kids or calling 1 & 2 year old's a "bully", as this parent seems to be doing of the one who bit the one time, when kids this age are naturally physical and often don't know their own strength. I just want to say...wait til your kid hits that age and you will understand. Though it sometimes take a while as they first try to find somebody to blame for their child's natural developmental stage. They all tend to do something that appears aggressive at age 1 & 2 it seems weather it be hit, push, bite, pinch, etc. 1 year old's and early 2 year old's are naturally physical since they don't have the words yet to communicate orally, as you mentioned. Also, we teach them things that counteract what we want to teach sometimes when being silly or little games like giving fives and sometimes I think they get a little confused with what is okay and what is not okay at this young age. 15-22 months is the prime time for the hitting, pushing, pinching, biting, etc. as our pediatrician and a friend's pediatrician recently said, terrible 2s is really the 2nd year of life as opposed to 2 years old, and I surely tend to agree with that. :) In dealing with parents like this, I try to just confidently tell them that it is a normal developmental stage that will pass as language develops. We just need to continually remind that hitting is not okay and to rather touch nicely or gently as we show them how to touch nicely, and help them communicate what they are trying to communicate. Some parents take longer than others to accept that their child is a typical child despite the "perfect genes" from which they come. :) Hopefully she soon realizes how typical this behavior is for a one year old, and that you are doing all you can to help. Best wishes!! :)