I feel your pain...we moved 7 hours from "home" and had to start over last year! Here is what helped me:
-Go to the library/community center and see what they have going. Get your daughter involved in everything (once she comes), and immediately you will begin to meet people.
-If you are religious, start finding a church. Once you find one that fits you, you will be meeting people in no time.
-Walk around your neighborhood on nice evenings. Inevitably, people will be out and about...say hello, introduce yourself, whatever you feel comfortable with. It is a little awkward at first, but you get used to it.
-Join a gym that offers classes...great way to meet other women!
-Find a mom's group. Even if your daughter isn't here yet, there is no reason why you couldn't attend and get to know people!
I hope this helps and good luck!