Hi M.,
This is my last response for this evening. But I don't know of any one with what you said, but my sister adopted a little girl with multiply tumurs in her brain, with fluid on 90% of her brain as well, with mental retardation, and server MS. Needless to say this little neice of mine can't get into trouble the way other children do, but boy do she have a teenage girl attitude. She's something else, she try's to run things just like most children even though she can't talk, walk, or anything else. When my sister and my brother in law, decided to adopt her, the doctors said it was no use she's going to die soon, she was 6 years old. The state said fine, but all finances are on you. My sis, and bro said fine and signed the papers. The love they have for this child blesses them with a patience like no other, teaches them things they might not have learned and so forth. That's not her only child, or her only trials, but she's trusted God through it all, and she's doing fine, and my neice she's 13 years old, and have been kicked out of school for bad behavior. Go figure. Love works miracles for you who's giving it, and the person receiving it. Hang in there. F.