I used to work in Early Childhood Special Education in NKC and have attended many Kindergarten IEPs.
You should know that you can't just ask for services. Your child should have gone through an evaluation. The results of that evaluation will dictate which services he will receive (i.e., OT, speech-language, etc.). Then you talk about the specific skills he will need in each of those areas to make educational progress in kindergarten and those will be written into the IEP. Then you talk about the amount of therapy time needed to meet those goals, and finally, where the therapy will take place (in classroom, in pull-out therapy, etc) and what type of classroom he will be placed in. All of the specifics you work out with the IEP team.
I know that you know your child best. Best advice: Work WITH the school staff instead of going into the meeting with a list of demands. And remember that nothing is set in stone. The IEP can always be changed. If something doesn't work or needs to be added it can always be talked about again.
Best of luck
R.