Hi Everyone,
I knew this time would that I would need additional help caring for my 3 year old. My schedule in my classes has increased now that i have begun my clinical training to become a nurse and I no longer can arrange my schedule around my sons. I am having an incredible amount of anxiety over this. I have interviewed a few people and I got that "gut" feeling that one particular person is the right fit for our son and us but....I am still overwhelmed with feelings good and bad. I am going to miss "my time" with him, someone else will have to pick him up from school and not me on 3 days a week, someone else will prepare lunch and read a story at nap time....also the more horrible feelings of ..what if this person is not who they turn out to be, abusive, or negligent... Sorry, i am just having some thoughts and rambling on but I think i needed to vent. I don't have any family members that can do this for me so I have to look elsewhere, this person that I'm leaning toward has a background check and it is clear. I think that I'm stressing just because it's new to me, but I can't help it. I don't know how much to pay this person that is making sure my son is safe and sound . This makes me want to reconsider me continuing my career but I know thats crazy...there are millions of people out there who have cargivers for their children and that they are fine.....any thoughts would help ease my worries!
Thanks L.
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Hi L.,
I think that your concerns and fear are natural and normal. As a previous nanny for many years and now a Mom to an 11 month old I can give you some of the many benefits of having a nanny. A nanny can devote quality and one on one time with your child. If you allow it, a nanny can take your child on "field trips" such as parks, museums, the zoo, etc. A nanny is solely responsible for your child not a classroom full of children. Nannies are often warm, creative, energetic, and most of all love children.
I would recommend requesting background clearances, and requesting references of former employers. I would also spend time with the nanny and your child to see how the nanny interacts with your child and how your child is responding to the nanny. As time goes on your fears will be eased if you see that your child is excited when the nanny comes and if your child is sending positive signals about the nanny.
I realize this is a touch decision but there are many positives to having a "good nanny."
Hi L.,
I have been lucky to have our parents for childcare, so I can;t speak on the topic of nannies specifically, but I know that in my experience, these transitions and changes are harder for us than for our kids. As long as you are confident in your choice, your child will be fine....however, mom will need some additional time to get used to it though. Hang in there, you are doing what is right for the future of your family.
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