I answered this question at work and then asked my SO later on in the evening and he said the exact same thing I said and was thinking at the tim...So, my question is..how many other people are on the same page as their SO's or spouses? I was so shocked he said about the same thing I did..it could of been word for word!
Sorry, I guess I should have been more specific. Yes, I was referring the question from yesterday about rating your sex life. I just used the phrase "adult life". I really have no life outside of my kids...lol! So, that is about the only "adult time" I get is when we're being intimate. Thanks for the replies.
She's talking about a question from earlier today and how it led to a conversation with her DH...who answered the question (from earlier today) the same way, nearly word for word.
Honestly, I don't know if we're on the same page today. Usually we are, but lately we're off.
Not exactly sure what your question is. In regards to what? "Adult life"...are you talking sex/intimacy or something wider in scope like quality of your adult interests, hobbies, relationships etc?
He said the same, lol.
I would rate my adult life as a 10. I am way happier now than I was growing up. My husband is amazing and the love of my life, my kids are fantastic, we live in a wonderful neighborhood, and I love God. I could not ask for more.
After nearly 25 years together, my husband and I can fight without even talking. He'll do something I don't like and I'll say, "Hon...." And he says, "Yeah, I know." And I'll say, "And you know..." and he'll say, "I get that, too." Then we laugh, kiss and make up. He can do the same with me, with just a look.
Seriously, though. We tend to finish each other's thoughts all the time. I think it's just a function of being really in tune with each others wants and needs, plus having a very common vision of the relationship and future.
Enjoy!
As opposed to what? Your kid life? Or does it mean has your adult life turned out the way you planned?
Sorry my answer is a question ;)
what do you mean by "adult life?"
I say maybe a 6. A lot of times I'll tell him I want it and he sees me watching tv and assumes I don't want any and will go lock himself in his office. If I didn't want any then why would I say I want some. OR he wants sex but doesn't come right out and say something but he beats around the bush or trys to drop hints I don't pickup on. Its slowly getting better. I always tell him I'm at the prime of my sex life and we need to get it on more before we can't any more.
My adult life in general is good. Actually its getting better. As we've been married longer and longer things are going better
