Angry Mom Seeking Advice on How to Handle Such Ignorance

Updated on July 27, 2009
M.M. asks from Dallas, TX
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okay ladies let me give u some history on these people. the man has four girls with one woman and a son with another. well the woman who has four girls with is pregnant again!!! these people always beg for money to buy for their kids. they don't work. they are super irresponsible. they want a boy so thats why they say that they got pregnant this time. what are the odds of them having a boy this time?? just wondering because i am tired of them making babies and acting like bunnies!!! any experts out there??? maybe they will get what they want and grow up and provide for them.

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Ladies....just so u know I never give this couple money! I use to but I don't anymore!! I just want them to grow up and I think if I report them they will or least the children will be better off!!!! I just don't want to tear this family apart.

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M.D.

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M.,
This is just my two sense, even if they do have a boy they will still ask you for $$$... If you continue to give you will enable them to always depend on you. It's hard but just say NO... Anyway, if they have a boy, are they just gonna ignore the girls they have?
On percentage of having a boy, I don't really know; it's up to the man, he carries the "y". Also, I have a theory, that some women's bodies tend to go for the "x" and not the "y"; but I really have no medical facts and I would still put it on the man's fault for not having boys
Just say NO!

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S.L.

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yeah i knew a family who kept trying for a boy. it took 8 girls before they had one. then the woman put her foot down and said she was done. guess who wanted the boy? yeahhhhhh. as for the posted couple, you can't fix stupid. but you can step in for the kids' sake and demand they step up to the plate or you will call CPS for neglect.

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S.B.

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Ignorant or lazy? The Bible says if you don't work, you don't eat. If they ask for money, ask if they are working - no? sorry, "but if you don't provide for your family they will suffer. Not my job to support you; I will not enable you to be a bum." Also, go ahead and tell them you are going to turn them in to CPS. But here is the biggest question: have you prayed for them? Ask God to make him a godly man, a provider of physical and spiritual food for his family. Is he lazy? pray he will be a worker; ignorant? pray God gives him wisdom---you get the idea.

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K.C.

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M., I would think they are neglecting the children since they do not work and provide for them. I feel sorry for the children but the parents are not being smart. To me, it seems like this mother is not secure in herself to allow herself to feel she must produce a son since her husband has one with another woman. Insecurity makes people do dumb things. Are the children in school? someone needs to step in for these children.

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D.C.

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The chances of a boy are pretty slim. The chances of them growing up just because they have a boy are less than zero.

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