First off, thanks for serving our country. I appreciate all the service men and women. Seconly, although I am not for cosmetic surgery, if you feel it is right for you, then go for it. But if you ever do decide to have more kids, it will be kind of ruined. Maybe you should wait a little while. And another thing, don't compare yourself to anyone else. God made you just the way you are. I also am insecure about my body (two kids in two years), but I got to grow two babies. I know eventually I will get to where I want to be. I don't think I'll ever be where I was, but I don't care anymore. My husband loves me, my kids love me, and I got whistled at today! So woohoo! Anyway, good luck and I hope you are at peace no matter what you do.