C.C.
It's a tough situation and I've been living it for 13 years. I love spending time with my kids, but if we didn't have dual salaries we couldn't afford so many of the things they enjoy. I'm not referring to material objects, either . . . more about vacations, music lessons and belonging to clubs and sports that they really love! I, too, am not passionate about my job, but I'm paid well so it supports a better lifestyle. It is probably tougher on your kids since you were a SAHM up to this point so it is a huge adjustment for them, while I've always worked so my kids are used to it (although they don't always like it!). I wish I had an easy answer for you. Mostly it's about reinforcing your love for them and using whatever free time you have to do things with them. And if there is any flexibility in your job, try to do one or two school volunteer activities. Good luck!