Hi J.,
I have two little boys myself and my oldest who just turned 7 was diagnosed with ODD. Which is very similar to ADHD (and ADD). He was put on medication last year in kindergarten due to behavioral issues in class. He is young so he doesn't fight me on taking the medicine, but when he first started, he did question it. So I was very honest with him and told him that it wasn't because he was bad or anything, but because it would help him make better decisions in school, and it would help him focus on his homework too. I told his teacher about it and both kindergarten and now first grade teachers have worked with rewarding him for his good behavior. This also helps him because he was so used to getting in trouble for bad behavior, now he sees the rewarding part of having good behavior.
Just let your son know that it's there to help him!! Do his very best!!
I was very concerned with putting my son on any medications,especially because he was so young. But let me tell you, it has made a world of difference for him! His report card this year were all high marks,which was incredible considering last years.
How old is your son? I know it must be hard if he's older. I've often wonder how my son will react with it when he gets older. ODD stands for "Opposiotional defiance disorder" so you can imagine my concern.
Good luck! Oh, I almost forgot, I guess it wouldn't hurt to put it in his water or juice or whatever he drinks in the morning. I don't know how well this would work for you or for how long, but it's a temporary solution. Good luck. I wish you well!