Advice on My 4 Legged Baby. Peeing in the House

Updated on October 23, 2013
D.E. asks from Tampa, FL
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At my wits end w/ my dog! We got him from a rescue 2 years ago. He wasn't housebroken, or neutered. He was 9 mos. old. We had him neutered right away, and I got to task immediately on housebreaking him. It took a few weeks, but he got it.
We moved last year hours away due to a transfer, and now travel a lot. We have several issues w/ unreliable pet sitters, so this June we paid my sister to come get our dogs while we were on vacation in June. She has 2 dogs, one male who pees in her house from time to time.
Ever since then, MY dog has peeing in the house, not emptying his bladder, just enough to mark. It happened a few weeks after we got home, and went camping, We got back after a weekend, and he had peed everywhere. So we decided if we aren't home, he and the other dog will stay in the laundry room where they sleep. I hoped that would stop that it, but it hasn't. If we leave him downstairs unattended, we find pee. We know its him, not her because it's up on something. Like the wall, a cabinet etc.
He gets let any time he goes to the door. I have been watching him like a HAWK, and I just found another spot on our kitchen island. I STRONGLY believe it is not a medical issue. When I am downstairs with him, he lays on the floor and is very comfortable, and for the short amount of time he is left unattended he is taking that very small window and marking. I have "re-trained" him twice, and he will do great for days. As soon as I get "lax" and leave him downstairs alone, I find spots where he has peed. And I know they are new spots because I have been vigilant about cleaning everywhere so I know if the spot is new.
He is back in a crate right now, because I am so overwhelmed with this.
I know he can NEVER go back to anyone's house with us when we travel now. I just don't know what else to do.
And to add, he is very dominant over our older female. We got him as a companion for her, and she avoids him. He's not mean, but she can't eat unless we separate them, she cannot chew on bone or have a ball unless we lock him up too. I'm feeling like maybe he is a very territorial dominant dog, and the marking kicked in after being with another male who peed in the house.
Ideas? Suggestions? I will get his urine checked, but when that comes back normal, then what? I have had dogs w/ UTI's and kidney problems, they never hid it if the peed inside, because they couldn't hold it. And the issues not getting worse, so I honestly don't feel like that's it.
Also he has never peed in the laundry room where they sleep. And there's plenty of room for him to do that and it not be in his bed where they sleep.

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D.D.

answers from New York on

How often do you take him out and get him really tired? A tired dog is a good dog. He needs to get a lot of exercise so walking him in the neighborhood might be a good idea. He'll pee on everything to mark his territory (which is basically anything he feels like peeing on) and come home feeling more relaxed.

As far as leaving him alone? You can't. When I first got my rescue dog he was 2 yrs old and had never lived in a house. Not house broken at all. I had him leashed so he was always right there with me. After a while I unleashed him in the house but called him to follow me to where ever I was going so he wasn't alone. That along with a couple walks a day cut out the in the house marking.

The reason he's not marking in the laundry room is because that's his den; where he sleeps and feel safe. He doesn't have to mark it because he feels he owns it already.

He needs to see that you are the top dog so put your training skills to use every single day so that he's not the dominate one in the house. Make him sit while you give your other dog food or something of high dog value. Once she's established then give him something. Be bossy to show him that he doesn't choose what the other dog can and can not have. Throw him on a leash if he's not behaving. Be a top dog.

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K.S.

answers from Denver on

I know you will get much better answers than mine. I have a female rescue dog, and she had some housebreaking issues- still does to some extent. What we have realized with her is that the peeing is more about anxiety than anything else. Once we have a handle on that, things are better. She is mostly attached to me, so when I leave, everyone has to watch her like a hawk or she will pee (like yours- not emptying the tank) out of 'unhappiness'. I wonder if there is some of that going on with yours?

You have the male dog/marking thing and the dynamics with the other dog, so that may be complicating things and I don't know about those things. Just wanted to throw the idea of anxiety out there- especially with the move and the extra travel now.

I hope you get it worked out. Good for you for rescuing a dog, and good for you for so patiently trying to help him and work it out!!

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D.P.

answers from Minneapolis on

My mom's dog marks at our house. We got him a wrap that goes around his waist and prevents him from marking. He won't pee with it on. We like to call it his weight belt. Make sure it fits well too so he can't move it.

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T.R.

answers from Milwaukee on

What you have is not a house-breaking issue, but a territorial one. It sounds like he might have had issues when he stayed w/your sister, where he felt he had to exert himself to the other dogs, & it has carried over to your house.

First of all, make sure to wash down everything in your house that you can with an odor neutralizer.
Second, block off areas that you know he is continually marking, like the window. You can do this with a baby gate, for example.
Third, he needs to be with you @ all times, & if he starts to mark, you SCOLD him verbally, strongly & sharply & quickly. As soon as he stops, you PRAISE him verbally & physically.

This is a behavior issue, & he needs to know that you are the boss in the house, & he can't just mark when & where he chooses. Outside only!

DO NOT physically reprimand him, or rub his nose in it - that won't do anything but make him shy about being near you & upset.

There are also belly-bands you can get for dogs who mark... they will end up peeing a bit on the band (I believe an absorbent pad is placed in them, much like a maxi pad), & the bands should be washed regularly. But this helps keep your house clean. They are for supervised use only - don't put one on & leave him for hours alone in the house.

I have 2 intact males, & the youngest JUST turned 2. I am crossing paws that neither one gets into territorial marking, esp. with one of my bitches still intact as well. But, I know that if anything comes up, the best way to deal with it is to put a kabosh on it quickly & firmly, prevent it from happening, & redirect the activity to appropriate areas (ie. outside)

Good luck, & in addition to everything above, I would agree with getting a urinalysis done, just to be clear that it is not a biological problem.

T.

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C.B.

answers from San Francisco on

Dog do not like to pee where they lay. The next time you find a spot, tie the dog up so he HAS to stay right next to the spot. He WILL NOT pee there again. If you keep doing this, he will stop peeing in the house because he will NOT like having to lay next to it.

And you're right, this was brought on by being with another male dog who marked his territory inside.

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M.P.

answers from Raleigh on

Do you walk the dog regularly? This might encourage appropriate marking throughout the neighborhood. It will also wear him out to the point where marking in the house is less appealing.

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