H.L.
Hi G.!
Congrats on being able to stay home with your babies!! It's the hardest and most rewarding job out there!
My advice to you is to join a moms group. There are many in this area: MOMS Club, MOPS, Mothers & More, and I'm sure many others that I don't know about.
I joined my local MOMS Club chapter when my daughter was born (2000) and I left my job. It has been my saving grace! Not only will you find friends for your kids, but also wonderful friends for yourself! I don't know much about the other kinds of moms groups, but MOMS Club offers playgroups, activities/outings, mom's night out, etc. The annual dues for most chapters is around $25. You can locate a chapter in your area by going to www.momsclub.org and send them an email requesting info.
Good luck!!
:-) H.