Hi K.,
Our daughter turned 3 last Friday, was potty trained by 18 months, then reverted six months later with a lot of false fear, though real to her...distraction, avoidance, forgetting, all that. We stopped. We stopped the mnms, the prompting bit. No big deal. We learned this with our son who simply trained later. He also withheld bowels so we changed diet, did xrays to make sure he bowels were ok and they were blocked so keep an eye on that. We gave both kids probiotics for gut and bladder issues and all around good health.etc...which helped that and a ped shared she was going through the same thing just recently with her 3 year old. My mom reminded me how I trained so young...not much tv, no pull ups...For the next 8 months I poured even more time into my daughter but not around training, just being with her. One day before Christmas, I heard her upstairs and learned she had changed a #2 pull up herself, wiped it (to her best as those messes are much more) got a blue disposable bag and put it in her pail in her bathroom. She also cleaned the floor and was changing her clothes. I encouraged her how wonderful that was and knew she was ready to train. I did not make it a big deal, did not offer treats to lure her but she remembered the mnms and started going and would ask for them. I would give them, but soon, she just did. She does still have these random pee accidents and will sometimes with hold # 2 without encouragement. She gets busy and sometimes just does not want to and sometimes does. Very 3. She has a vivid imagination and as I write, is telling me she wants the fog to go away because it is going to get her. Lastly, I sometimes hang out and talk to her about anything but potty and then she relaxes and well,....better. I hope some of this helps. Both of my kids still have night issues intermittently. Deep sleeping son.
Younger daughter