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I'm EDITING TO ADD: For those that push people to stay together in the name of God... You have no idea the situation. It's not cool to tell someone to stay with someone and assume it's their problem when you don't know everything that's going on. You can be abused without being physically abused. You can be cheated on without the physical act of love. You can be scarred as a child without being hit. And you can be far more damaged in a dysfunctional family than a "broken" one. Not only am I a product of divorce, but I've been divorced myself. I've never been happier and more productive in my life. My daughter is excelling in her life and is happier now then she was when I was with her father. DON'T BE SO PRESUMPTOUS!!!
I left my 1st husband and I'm happier, healthier, and would do it again. It was very trying. I was always broke. I filed bankruptcy, but had a roof over our heads and had a car to get me to work everyday. I figured if I can pay the basics (food, gas, utilities, and home) then the rest doesn't matter. I learned to save with coupons online, from people at work, from a paper that someone was done with, and for Christmas one year, Goodfellas in my area helped me. They gave me gifts for my kids and $100 in groceries without question. Now that I'm doing better financially... I donate to Goodfellas anytime I can. I know they truly help those in need... personally.
If I can do it... She can too.