A.H.
Hello
The problem with bottles is the older they get the harder it get usually thats the case. With my son we just switched his bottle which he had at night to sippy which we were using as a bottle! He was 20 mos when we broke him but still had milk at night till he was like 2 1/2 in the sippy and it was hard to break we had to let him cry a few nights and it was horrible!
Now I also have a daughter and we broke her of the bottle at 12 mos and gave only water at night and this worked out so much better and easier for all of us. I learned with my son.
Sorry no advice on the pacifier my son took one till about 3 mos and my daughter never wanted one at all.