Dear Sandra,
HI. I really wanted to post because what your daughter is going through is what I went through at her age. I have lots of allergies and asthma (exercise and allergy induced asthma). I was on lots of pills everyday to help get all of it under control along with allergy shots 3 times a week for the first 5 years after I was diagnosed (at 8), then twice a week for another 4 years then once a week. I am a rarety the shots did nothing to alleviate my allergies. BUT prednisone did really help my asthma. I was on it for 4 years straight (ages 8-12) along with 2 other drugs that are no longer on the market and 3 different inhalers.
I know that Prenisone can be a little scary, but I would like to tell you about me. I did not suffer from any of the aggression or depression, I did not gain any weight either. What is did do was very much help my dependency on rescue inhalers. When I was 8, I was taking my inhaler anywhere between 3 -15 times a day. By the end of my 4 years on predinose I was using my inhaler 1-3 times a day, and at times not needing the inhaler for a few days in a row.
I am admantly opposed to kids being on that many drugs because of my personal experience, but I would willingly go on prednisone again if I need to get my asthma under control again. Please just watch your daughter closely for behavioral changes and have a very honest discussion with the allergist about your concerns. If you do not feel comfortable with what the doctor wants to do please please please go get another opinion.
Your daughter will eventually learn to figure out how she feels and how the drugs affect her, listen to her and be an advocate for her. My allergist was very admant that I remain on a drug that made me nauseaus and other things, I fought with him (at the ages of 12 and 13) to decrease my dosage and after 2 years he finally did... it helped a little. He also did not tell me that I needed to have blood tests to check for toxicity levels, and I was on this drug for about 6 years (the drug is no longer used for children but should a doctor want to use it, it was called Theodore (that is how it was pronounced I don't know if I spelled it right) without ever having a blood draw to check for toxicity.
I am not trying to scare you but let you know that there are a great many allergists out there, so if you or your daughter is not comfortable with the first one you see, try again. I just know how much I hated taking all those pills. You all will be able to come up with a way to control the allergies and asthma (if that is what she has) it will take a while but you all will figure it out.
D.