My friend's five year old just had her adenoids removed. They were SOOOO worried... She was seriously up and about, skipping around the room, within an hour.
I had my tonsils and adenoids removed a few years ago in my late 20's. It was HELL for me!!!!! Kids bounce back so quickly..............
I had tubes as a baby as well... Your child will be better off for it. It's great that your doctor is doing this now. So many go for the 'wait and see' approach.... and it becomes more of an ordeal the older we get.
I hope your baby has a quick recovery. I'm sure he will surprise you. :)
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This may be too late, but you may want to try a doctor that will take the tonsils as well... You don't want to go through that ordeal twice. If they are already enlarged then that may be a sign of what's to come. Kids recover so quickly, but as adults it's hell...