L.H.
My son had his adenoids removed. We had a horrible time with ear infections beginning around 4 months. I went to a regular ENT. Put a set of tubes in and his ears were so infected when the doc put them in that it was a nightmare. I didn't like his first ENT, but thought it wouldn't be a big deal since it was just tubes and I would be following up for the most part with his pediatrician. His ears were so infected when the first ENT put the tubes in that he kept a constant infection. A school teacher referred me to her pediatric ENT when she realized how sick my son was continuing to be. He was wonderful and tried several different antibiotics and even shots for a week straight, as a last resort. His ENT recommended taking the adenoids stating they are like a sponge for for infection. He said we would only take the adenoids, but warned me that most of the time just taking the adenoids didn't prevent tubes. Since having the adenoids removed (around 18 months and he's now 6.5) he's had maybe 3-4 ear infections. One of them has been swimmer's ear (which is different). So, the adenoidectomy made a huge difference in his infections we didn't have to have another set of tubes. I wouldn't have done it any different (except trust my gut to have gone to a different ENT when I didn't like the first one). If you're not comfortable with the decision to take the adenoids, post-pone the surgery until you've reached a decision. A few more days isn't going to hurt and if you want a second opinion, get one.
Blessings to you and your sweet son! Hope he feels better soon!
L.