M.L.
My son, now 6, is exactly the same. I agree with Peg M and Robswife03. Find ways to embrace the endless energy. I also recently have realized that MUCH of his behavior is due to his unending curiosity. Looking back, I think this has been with him for a long time, but I was chalking it up to behavior issues rather than realizing that it is his great need to understand everything in the world. I have started reading books on gifted children and it has been a tremenous help. One other note, I did not start taking him to church until he was 5. It is just unreasonable to expect an active 3 year old boy to sit through 2 hours of chruch. He just can't do it, so you are setting him (and your husband) up for failure. It doesn't matter that other 3 year olds are doing it. As others have said, they might have different personalities, they might be being threatended throughout chruch (not a good approach), etc. My friend's daughter will sit through church and color the entire time. My son hates to color. He will sit still and concentrate on something for hours, but not in a tiny little space in church. And one more thing, it is exhausting to have a child like this, you are not alone, but my son also has introduced us to a million things that we never would have investigated, so I try to remember the positive aspect of his energy.