Hi H.,
My brother and his wife were hit by an uninsured, drunk driver some years ago - while riding in the back seat of a friends car. The friend did not have uninsured or underinsured motorists insurance. My siser-in-law fractured her skull and had other injuries. She has never fully recovered and has been on disability ever since - which we, the tax payers, are providing. They tried to sue the woman who hit them but she literally had nothing for them to go after. I work in the insurance industry and see these kinds of things all the time. I wish we had a better solution for making sure everyone who owns a car has the proper insurance but that will probably never happen. So, in the meantime, protect yourself and purchase the uninsured/underinsured motorists coverage. A sad side note to my brother's story is that he and his first wife were also hit by a drunk driver, but she didn't survive. Can you imagine how he felt when he thought he might lose his second wife the same way - all because someone chose to drive while drunk?
Glad you brother was not in the car and hope you find a solution.
PS I forgot to mention that my sister-in-laws initial medical bills were covered by the friend's insurance, however, their insurance company had no recourse in recouping their expense - and I'm sure that this greatly affected the friend's future premiums. This is the vicious circle of insurance. It always ends up going back to the good folks who are paying for insurance and trying to do the right thing.