The FAFSA scores kinda tell the loan officers what kinda of loans & grants you qualify for... some of my schooling was all loans & out of pocket, some of it was grants & loans, and the last was grants & scholorships. It just depended on when I was in school - and it can change based on you FAFSA score each year & what the goverment sets the poverty rate at.
As for studing - my last main teacher (Medical Billing & Coding Program) told me to expect to study @ the same hours you are in class... meaning if you are in class 20 hours a week, study about 20 hours a week. I though she was nuts Ithink we all did - some of the classes were easy and I didn't have to study much... now when we got into the core classes I did end up following her rules! A&P and Medical Terms were very hard for me - I still struggle with them... I did find myself studing all the time with them - any chance I could get. My flash cards went everwhere with me... they even became my toilet reading - lol.
Being a student is harder when you have kids... I understand you hubby supports you in anything you do, but it is still harder with kids. I should know I have done it as just a wife and also with kids in the house. I have also done it while working 40 hours a week and as a SAHM - honestly I think the time I was a SAHM was harder then when I had kids and also worked 40 hours a week... I did have more quite study time when I worked & less demand at my job when I worked then I do as a SAHM. But I always keep the end result as my focus point when things got hard... it does help!
Good luck & congratz on being accepted into nursing school.
Oh, one last thing - before you put you money into a school... make sure it is a good school. You can look up the graduation rate and the rate of employment of graduated students on-line... make sure you get one that has both high ratings. More so the employment of the graduated... if they have a high rating through the department of labor - that means they are a well respected school in the feild and you should have better luck finding a job, where is if the rating is low - you may have a harder time finding employment since the community has issues with the school.