I am the one that brought up talking about budgets.
When I was growing up, while I did my homework, sometimes, my parents (while they were married) sat at the table and paid the monthly bills. After they divorced, my mom would sit and pay the bills.
I never saw the numbers, or, understood the numbers, but I heard them call them out, while someone logged them, the other wrote the check. Then they would add them up and talk about how much to put in the savings.. etc. and how much towards.. lets say a trip.. etc..
This gave me an idea of what it was like to earn money and then pay the bills. Once my parents divorced, I was in middle school and special events, clubs, lessons.. all of these things cost money and my mom would be honest and say. "well if you want to try out for Cheerleader, how much is that going to cost if you get selected.?" I would then need to find out this information and my parents and I would sit down and discuss if this was something we could afford, if maybe we would need to cut back on something. etc.. I never took for granted, what it meant to be able to participate. I respected my belongings. I offered to work , so i would not put a burden on my parents and i was always grateful for the things, I was given.
My mom was very honest about how much we could spend on groceries each week. If we wanted name brand cereal, we had to have a coupon and it had to also be on sale.
Again I never really knew the specifics, but I knew we were on a tight budget.
She spoke about good credit, about mortgages, Property taxes, insurance on a home and on a car. We knew that to have these things cost money and to have money you had to work.
I began taking care of my 2 younger cousins and my sister the summer I turned 13. I cannot recall how much I mad a week, but this was my money to help pay for my cheer leading uniform, pom, poms.. etc..
I also used to it to help purchase my back to school clothing that year.
I continued to babysit and do these summer childcare.
My mom wanted to get me a pair of contact lenses, so that is the first time we ever hosted a Garage sale. We made enough money for my contact lenses and a trip to the coast!!!! This was a big deal. we were only there 2 days and nights, but a vacation out of town was amazing.
When I turned 16 I had a part time job.
I needed a car, so I saved up and then my mom matched the amount. I paid all of the gas and half of the insurance. I paid for all of my school clothes from that time on. I paid my own club dues, and trips with school.. all of these things, I now paid for on my own
Once your child is ready to attend College, they will need to know your financial information to apply for scholarships and grants, to fill out the forms.. because once they turn 18, the College Student will be receiving the mail and emails from the College and the Govt.
It is important for children to realize, the money is not limitless. That it takes so many hours to earn this money, and you can spend it so quickly, without realizing it.
My husbands family never talks about money, but they do believe, the more money you have, the more power that person has. They are always saying they do not have any money.. Next thing you know they have a new car, a trailer, leather furniture, 50 inch flat screen TV..
We finally told them, When we say we do not have any money.. that means we have less than $20.. till the next pay day.. They were shocked.
I guess that shows you how they live.
FYI, Our daughter knew how much we paid for the cell phones. She is the one that agreed to a less expensive phone and no texting all through high school. Once she went to college, we wanted her to have the texting and be able to have internet. She still has always been a good steward of her money. If she wanted something we could not afford, we just told her, we cannot afford that, but you could always save up.
While she was in college, she SAVED money! It was amazing.