Hi S., I am thrilled you are moving to Grand Rapids. I work for the relocation department of a real estate office and come in contact with people with your concerns all the time. We have a lot of information that I could pass on to you if you don't already have it. Quickly, kindergarten depends on the school. Most are 1/2 days but not every day which transitions the little ones nicely. Forest Hills and East GR are great school systems (I live in Ada and my children all went to Forest Hills Schools) but so is Rockford. They are the top 3 in our area. East GR taxes are the highest, then Forest Hills, then Rockford. Ada and Cascade have some rural areas but everything is close to shopping and all. In Ada and Cascade, I don't feel anything is really within
walking distance, unless you live near downtown Ada (which I did for 12 years), but everything is close by car.
I totally understand how you feel about breaking into a new neighborhood. I came here 20 years ago from NYC and did find it hard to make friends. Fortunately, having children helps with that. I also was involved in a church which helped a lot. As for areas that have more "re-los" I would say that the Cascade/Ada area has more of that than East Grand Rapids. It seems that East people have been there for years. A lot of the relocations we do end up living in Cascade or Ada if they are looking for a good school system, especially since the taxes are a little better than East GR. As an example, I live in Ada (but it is Cascade Township--too long to explain right now) on a cul-de-sac which is within walking distance from an Elementary School. Several of my neighbors have relocated here (one is a cruise ship captain from Italy-how fun is that?) and several have young children. We have such a variety on our small block, from a doctor to newlywed couple to small business owner. It comes alive in the spring and summer. Anyway, I'm rambling on now. I would love to get to meet you and introduce you to people once you are here. We have several organizations that would help you meet new people, including a Newcomers Club. Of course, having a darling little boy will help you meet lots of new people. If you are interested, our company offers free tours for people relocating into the are at no charge. That tour could even include visiting schools you may be interested in having your son attend. There is no obligation. Let me know if I can be of any help. I am at home right now and don't have the website for the school info but I will send that to you later. Also, check out this website on Grand Rapids. http://www.rightplace.org/live/ Click on the Live Vibrantly button. I think it sums up Grand Rapids quite nicely. I wish you the best. J. (feel free to contact me at ____@____.com)